A marriage counsellor, Prosper Boadu, has slammed men who tend to ask their potential partners “what are you bringing to the table?”
He argued that a man should already know a woman’s value before pursuing marriage.
In a discussion on Max TV, Boadu insisted that men should be capable of deciding if their partners are the right fit for them before marriage to avoid asking such a question.
“You have to know why you are bringing her into your life. You bring her when you have done your assessment and determined that she suits the agenda you are pursuing. It is not when you have married her that you are asking ‘what are you bringing to the table?’ You should have known that before even marrying her,” he said.
Referencing the biblical story of Adam, who was already tasked with tending the Garden of Eden before Eve became his companion, Boadu emphasised that men should have clear goals before involving a woman in their lives.
“A man without vision or purpose has no business bringing a woman into his life because she is there to assist him in his goals,” he stated.
The counselor also questioned why schools don’t teach relationship and marriage skills, calling it a critical life decision that should be learned by all.
“These are important decisions. Why do we teach people how to be husbands and wives? Mothers and fathers? Because most people don’t know,” he argued.
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