A lady has come online to cr!tique girls who say they can’t be with a man who doesn’t have money despite not having either.
In the video she made it clear that she gets the irk whenever she hears girls call guys p00r, or br0ke because he cannot afford to get them what they want. She said she is not trying to support any gender, but if it was that easy to have money, you as a girl will have yours. She will reference a particular incident of when a lady said she cannot live with a man who stays in one room. Her question for the lady was if she had ever paid a rent in her life before.
She said that she knows that if she was older, her gender would have said she’s trying to be a “pick me”, who is looking for a husband, ” I no really send your papa for here. If e easy you for get that thing way you dey talk say another woman pikin no get. Why you come dey ask am when you no get the same thing? You are very very stup!d honestly”, she added. According to her, girls should also live by example.
The video has stirred some reactions from X-users:
@JustMyTake_ Men like this kind of post. But don’t kid yourself, hustle and make money. A woman has other things to offer aside from money… but as a man, money is the only thing “most” men can offer.
@Engrfran6_Dev The reason I think women believe it’s a man’s duty to be rich is that men, by nature, are born providers. A man will be shamed for not being able to provide. Women are born keepers, they aren’t seen by society as providers, no matter their level of wealth. A woman will be shamed for not being a virtuous woman. A woman’s dignity is her virtue and pride. That is a societal thing. It doesn’t mean you have to follow it blindly. Being able to provide and choosing not to is better than not having at all. As a man, don’t find comfort in takes like this. Use it to calm the pressure, not to kill the drive.
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