Counsellor Perfect is a counselling psychologist and ADR practitioner
Counselling Psychologist and Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) Practitioner, Counsellor Perfect has cautioned men to be circumspect in their relationships.
She noted that some women are dating men primarily for financial benefits rather than genuine affection.
Speaking during a discussion on Joy Prime on January 7, 2026, she indicated that money plays a significant role in shaping relationship dynamics and can often influence people’s intentions.
According to her, a woman who is financially independent but still chooses to be in a relationship without prioritising a man’s wealth is more likely to be genuinely interested in him.
“Money changes people. If you have a lady who’s working, she earns money and accepts being in a relationship with you, maybe, due to your job, she wants to focus on her career so that it can progress.
“You would understand that the lady is choosing you for who you are. She’s not choosing you because of your money or what you’re bringing on board,” she explained.
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She advised men to be vigilant, stressing that some women deliberately turn relationships into financial support systems.
“If you’re a man, you should be careful about that because some ladies are also using men as their employment avenues,” she cautioned.
The counselling psychologist further alleged that some women date multiple men simultaneously and strategically distribute their financial responsibilities among them.
“Some ladies are dating about three or four men and they’ve shared the bills among the men. One is paying rent, others are doing other stuff,” she said.
She added that when marriage proposals arise, such women often compare their suitors based on who can offer them the most comfort.
“When you come and bring a marriage proposal, they will start doing a comparison on where she will get comfort,” she added.
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