Veekee James is a Nigerian fashion designer
Nigerian fashion designer Veekee James has advised her sister-in-law to prioritise her husband’s needs in marriage, including not denying him sex and avoiding comparisons with other men.
In a video posted by YabaleftOnline, the designer spoke about intimacy, communication, and comparison in marriage.
Veekee encouraged her sister-in-law to be mindful of her husband’s needs, even on days when she feels exhausted.
“Don’t deny your husband sex. Sometimes you can be tired, too tired that you cannot move, sometimes you are exhausted, and the last thing you want is for someone to touch you, but my sister, just lie down and open your legs,” she said.
Veekee James acknowledged that there are days when her sister in law will be genuinely too tired for intimacy, and in such cases, she should communicate with her husband.
“That does not mean that some days you cannot be truly tired and say you cannot do it. You should just know how to say it,” she added.
The celebrity designer also spoke about the dangers of comparison in relationships. She urged her sister-in-law to avoid comparing her husband to other men, no matter how wealthy or accomplished they may be.
“Never compare your husband to any other man. I don’t care who that man is or what he has, you should not even allow the devil to put such a thought into your head,” she warned.
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