A lady’s Facebook post about a man’s financial obligation to his partner has generated fierce discourse among netizens. The lady, Elohor Ijeoma Isoni wrote in a very passionate post she made to Facebook that any woman in a sexual relationship is entitled to a monthly allowance from her man.
The lady declared that most women did not know the importance of their femininity and therefore, were allowing men to take advantage of them. She emphasized that living as a lady is expensive and any man courting a lady must contribute to this expense.
At the start of the relationship, the man and the woman should decide on a monthly allowance for the lady, which she would use to take care of herself. She added that this allowance was separate and did not exempt him from buying gifts and providing for the household.
In her words;
“UNPOPULAR OPINION Not for everyone but women who understand the importance of their femininity,”
GIRL, YOU SHOULD BE GETTING A STEADY MONTHLY/ WEEKLY MAINTAINANCE FUNDS FROM YOUR MAN.
When we say you should come to an agreement with your man(boyfriend or husband) to pay you a monthly or weekly girlfriend/wife maintenance allowance, regardless of whether or not you earn a living, people think that we are joking
You’ll hear pick mes and alpha males saying things like was she not taking care of herself before the man? The answer is yes, she was, and she still is.
However, before the man, she was taking care of herself for herself not having to factor in that an extra human will have full access to her body, time and life causing her to incur double expenses by virtue of being a woman with a man. Being a woman is expensive by default, then add the extra that comes with having a man.
Let me break down the financial implications.
She would normally buy skincare for an expected duration a single lady, not having to bother about exchanging body matter with another human. For instance, after applying her 5 or 10 step night time skincare she goes to bed and her products work well. Now, she has a man. The man comes, and in one fell swoop, everything is wiped off and wasted because of intimacy and lovemaking brohohaha and she either has to reapply or deal with more skin issues later on which means spending more money on skincare.
Normally, she uses her expensive vitamins and supplements and they work and last well because no one else gets to come in there and mess up her vag Ph balance. Once she has a man, however, she now has to double up on her feminine supplements and vagi care because of imbalances arising from fingering, using lubricant or spit, as the case may be, oral xex and xex, either raw or with a cd. All of this go which go into HER body and not the man’s and ONLY SHE bears the consequences hence more expenses.
For the ones that bang raw she has to pop pills every day or do family planning and these come with more financial, emotional and mental cost which the man cannot be bothered about or he might be bothered a bit to squeeze 2k into her hands. This urgent 2k or 10k does absolutely nothing for her expenses but she has to fake a smile and be appreciative regardless.
She also has to spend more on lingerie and feminine clothing and accessories because waist beads get cut every week, and panties get tore off. She’s supposed to bear all these extra financial implications alone while being an understanding girlfriend
Feminine washes and toiletries get replaced every 2 weeks instead of every month because she has to clean up after every round for her optimum personal hygiene and to also be fresh for her partner while the man just moves on with his life.
At the end of the day, she’s spending so much more just by virtue of being a woman that has a man, and all he contributes is what exactly? Love, care? What’s all that without money?
Honey, ultimately, he’s attracted to you and approached you because you look and smell so good and that costs manayyy. He wouldn’t have approached you if the reverse was the case. So if he’s going to benefit from all that then he’s got to keep watering you by spending on you so that you can maintain all that goodness, and how else is he going to do that? Words of affirmation?
The only TANGIBLE thing has to be MONEY. That’s the only commensurate thing, not I love you.
So do your calculations and ask him for monthly girlfriend/wife allowance today. It’s your right.
And no, this doesn’t exempt him from buying you gifts and providing for the household. This is my unpopular opinion.”
The lady’s stance on this matter has caused a debate among netizens as they were divided between supporting her views and refuting her, with many believing she was entitled.
See her post here;
