Fashion designer Veekee James has stirred public conversation following remarks she made at a recent conference, where she emphasized the importance of financial responsibility and hard work among women.
Speaking to a gathering of women, Veekee James said a good wife should not wait around for her husband’s money, but should instead contribute actively to the well-being of her home.
According to her, a woman who embodies these values feeds her home through her own efforts, highlighting self-reliance and diligence as key qualities that strengthen a family.
She also noted that women should be willing to support their households financially, especially when building a family or business with their partner.
Veekee James also encouraged women to engage more closely with their spouses regarding their professional ambitions.
“What do you want me to do? How do you want me to start?” She described this collaborative approach as an important attribute of a supportive and forward-thinking wife.
Her comments have since sparked mixed reactions online, with some applauding her call for shared financial responsibility in marriage, while others argue that her expectations place excessive pressure on women.
Below are some of the comments;
“She’s saying this cos she married a poor man. She’s the bread winner. You don’t have to impose this on women whose situations are different.”
“Everyone should do whatever works for their marriage. Some rich men with rich wives still prefer to be the sole provider“
“It’s good advice. Whether you marry down, marry equal or marry up, don’t be reliant and helpless.”
“So what will the husband be doing in the house then If the wife is doing almost everything at home?”
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Veekee James sparks debate on TikTok after advising women to provide for themselves and their children instead of relying solely on their husband’s money. pic.twitter.com/BRXY8er55z
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