A set of rules shared by new parents for guests visiting their newborn has sparked conversation, after the detailed guidelines surfaced on social media.
The couple, who recently welcomed a baby boy, put together a warm but firm note to help protect their infant’s health and comfort while ensuring visits remain positive and respectful.
In the message, the parents expressed excitement about family and friends meeting their little one, but emphasized that certain boundaries were necessary.
Guests are asked to use hand sanitizer immediately upon entry, and to avoid touching or kissing the baby’s cheeks and mouth.
They also made it clear that their son’s full name, Irewamiri, should be used, not ‘Ire,’ which they gently corrected in the list.
Another rule that caught attention was their request for visitors to speak in a normal, clear voice around the baby.
They discouraged exaggerated baby talk or sounds like ‘jigigijigi yigiyigi,’ explaining that they want their child to get used to hearing regular speech patterns.
The parents further noted that they were not seeking unsolicited advice about raising their baby, stating they already had a strong support system.
They also asked guests to avoid shaking the baby’s hands or touching his ears, prioritizing the infant’s comfort and safety.
Despite the firmness of some rules, the note ended on a warm and appreciative tone, thanking guests for understanding and expressing joy at the chance for loved ones to bond with their newborn.
The list has generated mixed reactions online, while some users agreed with the new parents, others debated how much structure is appropriate for visiting a newborn.
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