A mommy influencer was blasted online for showing off an ‘inappropriate’ cake at her baby daughter’s birthday party.
Allison Kuch, wife of NFL player Isaac Rochell, went viral on TikTok after posting a video of her holding a cake in the shape of a bra with breasts on December 15.
Kuch was celebrating her daughter Scottie Bee‘s first birthday party.
‘When it’s your daughters first birthday & your husband surprises you with a yitty cake to celebrate a year of exclusively pumping,’ Kuch wrote in the video.
Many social media users considered the cake a ‘weird’ treat to serve at an ‘odd time.’
‘I’m not prude but this is weird. Plus there were other people’s kids there too, ‘ one Reddit user wrote in a post.
Multiple Reddit users acknowledged that they would’ve enjoyed the cake if it were served at another event.
‘Cake itself, celebrating it, all perfectly fine and sweet but at the birthday party is weird,’ another wrote.
Allison Kuch was given a cake to celebrate a year of breast pumping at her daughter’s first birthday party
Several Reddit users accused Kuch of attempting to make Scottie’s party all about her.
‘Not a prude either but it’s a time and place issue. I wouldn’t want to have this cake given to me at my child’s first birthday,’ one said.
‘Even if it’s to celebrate the amazing breastfeeding milestone, this should’ve been done at a private date night or other event. Focus on the baby and celebrating them at their bday party!’
Yet another user wrote: ‘I’d be so annoyed if I was the mom of a kid at this birthday.’
One user claimed that if their kids were at the party, they’d call the police and report ‘indecency.’
‘Everyone wants their kids to look back and see how funny, cheeky, and out there their parents were,’ another user wrote.
‘In actuality, it’ll take until the kid is around the same age with kids for them to realize how attention seeking their parents were.’
Reddit users slammed Kuch for having the ‘inappropriate’ cake at her daughter’s birthday party
Despite Reddit users thinking negatively about the cake, some commenters understood why the cake was not a bad thing
Multiple commenters understood why she deserved a cake for pumping.
‘Breastfeeding is hard. Exclusively pumping is very hard. Exclusively pumping for an entire year is next level,’ one Reddit user wrote.
‘She deserves to celebrate that however she wants. The first birthday is for the parents, especially the mom, anyways.’
Others users didn’t believe the cake was problematic, and TikTok users praised Kuch and Rochell for the celebration.
‘You honestly are a rockstar for going to a year! Pumping is soooo mentally exhausting,’ one commenter wrote.
Others called Kuch an ‘icon’ and said she ‘killed it’ when it came to breastfeeding.
‘Okay I’ve never been this early for a Kuch video and this one is an honor,’ one commented.
Kuch revealed in a video that it was a surprise party and that her husband knew nothing about the event.
The mommy influencer also showed off another cake on the party, which she called the ‘smash cake.’
Kuch purchased a round, circular ‘smash cake’ for Scottie’s birthday from a California-based bakery
Kuch claimed she would ‘always remember’ Scottie’s birthday party in a video recorded by her husband, Isaac Rochell
‘I hope Scottie grabs my face and pushes it in this cake,’ Kuch said before pretending to lick the frosting off.
Before they sang ‘Happy Birthday,’ the mom and NFL star added six candles, a dog cake topper, and ‘Scottie is one’ in edible letters.
Kuch credited the cake to Salted Butter Company, a California-based bakery with nearly 6,000 Instagram followers.
Other treats and activities at the party included cupcakes, a food table with fruits and vegetables, and a small bounce house with a ball pit.
‘Scottie, if you’re watching this in the future, I love you so much, and you probably won’t remember this day, but I remember this day,’ Kuch said.
