Media personality Tima Kumkum has passionately criticised the widely held belief that men are naturally polygamous, describing it as a harmful narrative that must be challenged.
Speaking in an exclusive interview on Hitz FM on July 22, 2025, Tima did not hold back as she shared her strong views on cheating in marriages and relationships.
“They’ve made it so normal to say men are polygamous by nature. I don’t want to hear that crap,” she declared, adding that cheating is always a choice and never a mistake.
According to her, a man who cheats on his wife does so knowingly and deliberately. “If you cheat, it was deliberate,” Tima stressed.
“You knew what you were doing was wrong, and you did it anyway. If it was right, you would have told your wife. But you kept it from her because deep down, you know God will punish you one day.”
When asked by the host if her views were backed by scripture, Tima firmly responded, “Yes, adultery. The Bible clearly states that the only valid reason for divorce is sexual immorality.”
She further emphasised that while the Bible allows room for forgiveness, it leaves that decision to the affected partner.
“The Bible says it depends on you if you want to forgive,” she explained.
Tima also expressed concern about how society has gradually normalized cheating, especially among men.
“People now make it seem like it’s normal, but it’s not,” she insisted.
She made it clear that her stance was not rooted in gender bias, stating, “I’m not saying this because I’m a woman. Women cheat too, but the issue here is about men. And I’m saying, loyalty is one of the most important things in every relationship or marriage.”
She concluded with a firm expression of disappointment saying, “I hate to see or hear a man say he loves his wife and yet still cheats.”
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