A Nigerian lady has sparked intense debate online after she shared thought-provoking advice that couples with no children should consider.
Sharing on her Facebook page, she stated that couples should normalize marrying someone else on behalf of their partner if they are medically confirmed to be infertile.
According to her, if she’s the one with fertility issues, she would marry another woman for her husband. But if the problem lies with her husband, she wouldn’t hesitate to find another man to get her pregnant.
She believes it is selfish to deny someone their desire to have children, all in the name of preserving a marriage.
She further stated that if you truly love someone, you’ll want them to have what you can’t give them, even if it has to come from another man or woman.
A part of her post read;
“I will not ADOPT when I am sure I can get pregnant and carry my child to full term just because my Spouse is unable to biologically have one I think that’s too much of a sacrifice to make for a mortal! Why will I adopt another blood when one of us can make a baby? However, this is in situations where IVF had failed!!! Even a surrogacy needs an active egg and spermatozoa!!”
Her opinion has sparked mixed reactions on social media, while a few agreed with her stances others disagreed.
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