A Nigerian lady named Rosemary Isong has sparked a heated debate on social media after expressing her anxiety over dating a man who has never requested financial help from her.
According to her, the lack of financial openness and open conversation about money issues in a relationship is a key warning sign.
Isong, who spoke strongly about her opinions, revealed that she thinks open communication about money is a sign of a healthy relationship.
She underlined that she would be concerned if her spouse didn’t ask for financial assistance from her, even for very small amounts like N20,000 or N50,000.
She continued by saying that she would find it disrespectful if her significant other turned to friends rather than her in times of financial hardship since it may potentially break their relationship.
The young lady continued by saying that trust and reciprocity form the foundation of her relationship-based financial strategy.
Isong said she would consider it a deal-breaker if she had been seeing someone for six months and he had never asked for financial support.
Isong’s remarks have stirred up a mixture of reactions on social media platforms. Tweetsbyobinna wrote; “This may not apply all the time, like myself, I don’t think that I will need money from my girl. But for mrn like me, sometimes make her pay for a food or sth we bought together that you think she can afford. Tell her to recharge you and when she does, pay her back… Just be a man. That’s it”
Emeka_Anyanwu_ said; “I de owe my babe 6600, 😂…. I never pay back she don use small small spend more than 50k on my head under 1month and 3weeks.”
Watch her speak below.
